When women decide to cheat, they do so for various reasons. It could be out of revenge, to find love, sex, attention, money or appreciation. This might seem to the emotionally uneducated, nonsensical even stupid but it could be the reason why a woman strays. It takes a while for a woman to be found out and this is mainly because women when they do decide to keep a secret they can keep it. Men on the other hand cannot. Yes there are some who think they are very good at keeping a secret but really you are not. The moment that secret is kept by three people it is no longer a secret (you, the woman and your best friend).
Men have a pack mentality and constantly need to show off to other males and in doing so, also show their partners that something is amiss. This will manifest in an attitude that i-have-something-good-going-on-these-days. Afoot. They start behaving out of character: buying new shoes, new clothes, new cologne to impress, becoming violent and lying for no reason. Some even go to the extent of being paranoid about their phones: if they are in the bath they either take the phone with, or they switch it off and you can not switch it on because there is a security code you do not know.
I know of men who take their phones into the car or the garage or away from the house. One guy once ran naked out of the bathroom with rivulets of soap and water streaming down his body because his phone rang and his wife answered. If it had not been so sad, it would have been hilarious.
Men cannot help it. They longer they 'keep' the deception, the more reckless they become. and if they are not caught they think they are very clever. Women know when their men are cheating and they turn a blind eye because they do not want to rock the boat.
Like I said before, cheating is never good. Tell the other person that you have bigamist tendencies so they know what they are in for. No heartbreak, no pressure.
peace,
fadz
Men have a pack mentality and constantly need to show off to other males and in doing so, also show their partners that something is amiss. This will manifest in an attitude that i-have-something-good-going-on-these-days. Afoot. They start behaving out of character: buying new shoes, new clothes, new cologne to impress, becoming violent and lying for no reason. Some even go to the extent of being paranoid about their phones: if they are in the bath they either take the phone with, or they switch it off and you can not switch it on because there is a security code you do not know.
I know of men who take their phones into the car or the garage or away from the house. One guy once ran naked out of the bathroom with rivulets of soap and water streaming down his body because his phone rang and his wife answered. If it had not been so sad, it would have been hilarious.
Men cannot help it. They longer they 'keep' the deception, the more reckless they become. and if they are not caught they think they are very clever. Women know when their men are cheating and they turn a blind eye because they do not want to rock the boat.
Like I said before, cheating is never good. Tell the other person that you have bigamist tendencies so they know what they are in for. No heartbreak, no pressure.
peace,
fadz
Very interesting fadzie.
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