There must be something which happens the moment a woman gets married that messes up her psyche. Most women I know totally lose it when they get married, especially after a first baby. They condone what should not be condoned. They act like demented idiots. They seem to have a permanent psychotic mood shift. The things they do defy explanation. They break bread with dead events all the time, psychoanalysing events which they have no hope of changing.
I have three friends who shall serve to illustrate the insanity of women.
Gladys
Gladys' husband cheats on her regularly. She fights with him and then occasionally beats up the women. She works herself into a frenzy calling everyone inviting us to accompany her on her missions of justice. She is never happy unless there is some drama going on in her life. I think her husband does all her does just to get her goat. There was a time you know when Gladys used to think logically. When she never went down into the mud to fight with the fools. It is sad and pathetic and is not as if she is going to change the situation. She lost her bargaining power the first day she raised her fists. Crazy. But not as crazy as Ruvimbo and Sindi.
Ruvimbo
Ruvimbo grew up in a loving home secure and stable. She got married to a bounder really. He treats her badly and makes no secret of the fact. Her injuries which were regular he just explains them away as her punishment for not minding him. Everyone can see that she is on her way to the grave. She makes excuses for Patrick's bad behaviour and even sits in judgement of women who leave abusive husbands. I remember she refused to speak or acknowledge the presence of Tariro another friend who left her husband of seven years because she was tired of being a punching bag. Her reasoning is if she leaves, she is a failure. And will be a failure for the rest of her life. Mad. She might not even have that rest of the life that she thinks of. She spends most of her time talking about what happened in the past and how nice it was. Because our perspective of the past alters and the most recent past is dead ground, her periodic forays into the past changes with each visit.
Sindi
Sindi is the craziest of the lot. She has a great husband who panders her every whim within reason. She of late has become a tyrant, her husband is a virtual prisoner. She refuses to let him out of her sight and he has to give an audit of his movements if they are not together. If he says something out of turn then he gets a verbal lashing. She is unreasonable verging on madness. The husband appears whipped but he is just trying to keep the peace. There used to be a time when she was the most promiscuous person I knew and it might be she fears her husband will behave the way she used to.
It is not all women who are like my three friends. There are some who defy logic; who are much worse and are difficult to live with. Is there something which happens to women the moment they get married that we should be aware of? Is there a course of treatment?
peace,
fadz
I have three friends who shall serve to illustrate the insanity of women.
Gladys
Gladys' husband cheats on her regularly. She fights with him and then occasionally beats up the women. She works herself into a frenzy calling everyone inviting us to accompany her on her missions of justice. She is never happy unless there is some drama going on in her life. I think her husband does all her does just to get her goat. There was a time you know when Gladys used to think logically. When she never went down into the mud to fight with the fools. It is sad and pathetic and is not as if she is going to change the situation. She lost her bargaining power the first day she raised her fists. Crazy. But not as crazy as Ruvimbo and Sindi.
Ruvimbo
Ruvimbo grew up in a loving home secure and stable. She got married to a bounder really. He treats her badly and makes no secret of the fact. Her injuries which were regular he just explains them away as her punishment for not minding him. Everyone can see that she is on her way to the grave. She makes excuses for Patrick's bad behaviour and even sits in judgement of women who leave abusive husbands. I remember she refused to speak or acknowledge the presence of Tariro another friend who left her husband of seven years because she was tired of being a punching bag. Her reasoning is if she leaves, she is a failure. And will be a failure for the rest of her life. Mad. She might not even have that rest of the life that she thinks of. She spends most of her time talking about what happened in the past and how nice it was. Because our perspective of the past alters and the most recent past is dead ground, her periodic forays into the past changes with each visit.
Sindi
Sindi is the craziest of the lot. She has a great husband who panders her every whim within reason. She of late has become a tyrant, her husband is a virtual prisoner. She refuses to let him out of her sight and he has to give an audit of his movements if they are not together. If he says something out of turn then he gets a verbal lashing. She is unreasonable verging on madness. The husband appears whipped but he is just trying to keep the peace. There used to be a time when she was the most promiscuous person I knew and it might be she fears her husband will behave the way she used to.
It is not all women who are like my three friends. There are some who defy logic; who are much worse and are difficult to live with. Is there something which happens to women the moment they get married that we should be aware of? Is there a course of treatment?
peace,
fadz
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